Sunday, January 22, 2006

Now it can be told

I've been bad about blogging this, but in short...this guy I met last Friday through P and K, I found him plenty interesting, went out with him Monday and yesterday. Today when he called to find out what was going on with us, I told him that I wanted either a serious relationship (not necessarily with him, but that that was the purpose of my dating people...though honestly he ought to have known that, I'd said it more than once)... or to be friends, and he wanted neither of those, so I won't be seeing him again.

I feel all grown-up, but in reality it was an clear choice, and I made it without any bitterness or regret whatsoever. The only thing is that it is too bad to lose interesting people from one's life. That part is a shame.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

:( Glad it was an easy call to make though. on to the next interesting person, then!

J.

moppety said...

Yup!

The most bizarre footnote to the whole thing is that he's related to a certain general who has an airport named after him. I get the feeling that it's more a source of conflict for him than anything else; he described his family situation as "complicated". Plus, it's got to be well annoying to have that last name in France.

Nice guy, too bad he doesn't want to be friends! But I understand.